Sunday, April 12, 2009

Inside-Out Again

In this final chapter Covey talks a lot about the gap between stimulus and response. I had never really thought about this gap before, but I found it really interesting. Since there is a gap between stimulus and response everyone is able to choose their response, it's not an automatic decision. By working on ourselves and our relationships with others from the inside-out we are able to come up with more proactive responses and these proactive responses can lead to a synergy in the outcome.

Looking at this book as a whole I think Covey made a lot of good points. Occasionally I thought his examples were a little extreme, but he made up for these with several very strong stories. Several of the habits seem like common sense (put first things first, think win/win) but people do not always practice them. It is easy to get caught up in life and not focus on our relationship with ourselves and other people, which is one of the most important aspects of life.

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